Empathy involves sensing the emotions of others and stepping into their shoes to understand their thoughts and feelings. Interestingly, to truly empathize with others, we must first be aware of ourselves. Discover more about this connection in our blog this week.

Sometimes it feels like we live in an emotional tinderbox driven by issues related to race, gender, political party, religion, and a variety of other issues. Rather than getting caught up in all of this, let’s take positive steps with this week’s blog!

Decades of research indicate that acts of kindness provide substantial benefits to our wellbeing. But how much kindness is needed? Several studies show that at least five acts of kindness are necessary over the week (Lyubomirsky & Layous, 2013). Here’s which acts of kindness are necessary over the week…

The second pillar of kindness is kind thoughts. The best way to think about this is to picture the running dialogue in our heads. Typically, that dialogue is composed of thoughts about ourselves and others. It's that voice that whispers things like, "that person doesn't like me," or “they think I'm not smart, etc." Let’s learn how to address these thoughts and develop self-compassion.